So many of you think inter caste marriage is a problem but what do you do when you are from a different country/culture/race/religion? Its an even bigger problem. I love my boyfriend. We've been together 2 years and we want to get married. We both live I Canada but his family is very traditional. Between him and myself things are great I love him more than anything and I want to be his wife forever. The problem is: I'm very scared that his family will not accept. He has told his sisters and his mom about me but none of them has made an effort or asked to meet me. He has met all my family and they like him. I feel like maybe his family think I'm just a fling and that it will end up soon so why bother meeting me. Well they need to get used to the idea that I'm going to be their son's wife. Why wont his parent want to meet me?
Another thing is, his sister just got engaged. She is younger that my boyfriend. She's 21 and my bf and I are 25. Now my boyfriend says that he needs to get his sister married before he thinks about himself. So I guess I need to forget about marriage. At this pace ill be married after age 30. He explained to me its a pride thing for brothers to pay for their sisters wedding. Is that true? He is Punjabi so any advice from any punjabis is welcome.
And for those that don't approve of an Indian man marrying a Gori (as some have called me because I'm light) please don't need hateful comments.