Well i was in liv-in with one gal for 3 years, we were thinking of marriage, but her parents were not ready. So we decided to that I will search gal for my self since my family was forcing me for marriage. but she did not let me search a gal nor she allowed me to talk to any gals for 3 years. she continue staying with me. She cut her hand when i went to see one gal. so I thought she will never leave me n will go against her parents one day.
now last week, we got up as usual, had tea and bf, when i went to office i saw some of her relatives sending messges saying congrats on facebook. I called her and asked whats going on. then she told me she met one guy 4 days back which her parents have selected for her and she said yes to him. and she will be going home in the evening because that guys parents are coming to see her house. Well I was pissed but i thought she is just bluffing.. but later i felt seriousness in her voice so i askd her to come back home imm to talk to me.
After comming home she started crying and started saying sorry and all. she told me her parents forced her for the marriage. I was soo angry i messed that guy asking him to talk to my gf coz its forced on her. but later my gf blackmailed me saying if this rista breaks she will die. she made me send another message to that guy taking all blame on myself. so i messaged that guy saying it was one sided and when i got to know the news i just reacted.
Now she goes home, telling me engagement might be fixed after 3 days. next day she wont pickup ma call nor reply to my message. but in the night she messaged me saying engagement is done.
I was shocked, I asked her why she din tell me when she met that guy. why she did not consult me before saying yes to that guy. well she had no answer she just said she liked the guy.. well that guy is smarter and richer than me. but what about the love i gave her for three years. when i wanted to move on she din let me talk to any one. till last day she was staying with me.
I am not able to digest this back stabbing.. going through depression. now if i call her, her family is asking some local goons to talk to me and scare me.. infact her mom was aware of our liv-in, now she is requesting me to keep quit.
I am filled with anger, wanted to take revenge but cudnt do anything coz i still dont hate her but now i do not loved her.
I am going through worst phase of my life