we have been in a 4 years long relationship, where we were always in a long distance relationship. Two months back i shifted to his city after our engagement as started living in with him. As my company didn't have an office in his city, they allowed me to work form home. He is separated since last 5 years but still not divorced as the divorce case is going out in the court. He has a 5-6 years old daughter who stays with his ex-wife. I have been with him through his toughest times-after he had moved out of his marriage, there were some court cases against him, when he was in a mental turmoil- i was always there. In the last 1.5 years there were some mis-understandings between us as i couldn't give hi much time due to my work and he started to distrust me. I dint take the matter of distrust too seriously as our relationship was like that of true soul mates, but the matter from his side was very serious. He says 'there was not a single second he didn't dis-trust me. so we used to fight, argue, swear etc and things went messy. he decided to break-up and i convinced him to stay on that ill take care of everything and make things work-this was in March this year. then we got engaged and i moved in. But due to my work from home, marriage issue and other adjustment problems i couldn't be my best-my volume went high while arguing(which he read as yelling and insulting), i once pushed him in argument, due to my adjustment problems i was not dressed up when he wold come back from work. He fells i am not 'giving' in the relationship.
He too had his problems, in the early days of our relationship- i had forgiven him for a one night stand. After my moving in with him i felt he doesn't care small things for me(i could be wrong also). in nut shell he feels i don't resp0ct him. he says he loves me a lot but we cant get married.
i have done everything to save this relationship..i have nothing more i can do. Please advise what should i do..move on..i am 33 in age.