I have met a guy on internet dating. It is a great site not just for people wanting to date but also for networking and making friends. I introduced myself to a guy as I have family who are doctors and said he is a doctor wanting to get into a field that I have relatives in. I said on introduction - this site is for people wanting to make friends too. So we chatted for a couple of weeks and he said 'I have made a sister'. I was glad because we do get on really well. A couple of weeks later he wrote in text 'I wish you were a real sister' and I wrote 'me too'.<br>I am a widow so I am very careful about speaking to men as I do not want to introduce men into the children's lives. But my family live far away from us as do my deceased husbands family. So I am on my own to figure this out as they would also get very upset.<br>But as time has gone on I have realised how well we get on and so we decided to meet, again very relaxed and as brother sister. One night I was really cold camping and he wrote in text 'have my warm and generous heart to keep you warm'. It was such a lovely thing to say but I did not want to read to much into that so wrote back thank you, simple.<br>We have met a few times now and he has met the children and they think of him as an uncle and love him very much. He loves them too.<br>My dilemma is that his parents are coming to meet us in about 6 weeks and I just do not know if he likes me more than a sister.<br>A few times he has said he has not had any replies to girls he has chatted to on the dating website and has said he wants someone who is about 5-10 years younger so he can start a family.<br><br>I must admit I am a bit confused on this. He wrote to me 'thank you for your support sis' and I wrote back 'that is what friends are for' and he wrote back 'even sisters.....'<br>I don't know what to do. Is it possible he could like me more than just a sister?<br>Is he just being really careful until we have met his mother and father to make sure they are happy with this?<br>It is a huge step to take on a whole other family and all move into together which is what he wants. <br><br>I feel it is just me that thinks this might be a right relationship. I wonder if anyone can shed light on this and tell me if others have experienced people becoming brother sister relationship until another step might become clear? The more I write this the more I think no i am wrong and he does not see any thing other than sister brother relationship.