I am a 24 yr. guy working away from my home. I visit my home once around in 3-4 months. There's a family in my neighbourhood which has 2 children and a 17 yr. girl. These children have become good friend of mine, they come to my home to play computer games and cricket and even my parents find them amusing. The smaller kids are 8 and 10 yrs. old, they sit on my shoulder, pull my ears and fight with me. Recently, I noticed that the 17 yr. girl seems interested in me, I am not sure though. Earlier she didn't make any physical contacts with me but now she "touches" me and makes it looks accidental/unintentional. Few days ago, she pushed he loin against my knees(my knees were up and folded), I didn't know how to react to this. When children wanted a ride on my bike, this girl sat just behind me crumpling herself in a little space. Yesterday, while playing holi, she touched me "sensuously" many times in pretext of applying colours. I too made 1 or 2 moves . All these happen when no elder ones from our family are around there.

To be true, she's attractive, her cheeks are rosy and looks extremely beautiful. Is it my attraction towards her that makes her innocent moves look dirty to me? Is she really innocent and sweet and I am just dirty minded? Or does she want to get naughty with me? Totally confused.

Oh boy, you know her parents really trust you, they are allowing her at your place because of trust, she is now in a very critical stage of life, what she is doing can be termed as simply physical attraction and may be crush. Definitely she is feeling good in your company and if she is doing any advancement then you should first think.. why and how she is at your place.. because of her parent's trust, parents just never allow any growing girl easy at other's place.

You can easily interpret it the way you want, it is certainly her innocence, rest you have to decide and it will be your own choice. Just remember, you don't yourself and even your family in a questionable position if anyone ever get to know about you and this girl if you both made any advances.

The Girl is in a stage where she will get fantasies and this is the age where you have to make her understand the consequences of her behavior, her parents trust you a lot and this is the only reason they are sending her daughter almost 18 yr old to you and I think you have to be responsible here and you should not get into any act which will hurt her parents and they will regret on trusting you and your family so be responsible and make her understand what wrong he is doing, its an age where these fantasies develop you have to be mature enough to control yourself and behave like the elder to her to make her understand all the things he should avoid in this particular age.

Hi Raj,
If you think she is getting attracted to you but your have to keep yourself away from her and your are going home in 3-4 months to home your have to enjoy yourself that time. These situations are very critical what will happen next time, just ignore her and be practical. let the things put on your future what happens. She love you or anything she will tell you then make decision what next should to be done!
If she is being friendly then your also be friendly with her. If shes interested in your let her accept it in front in you.