hi all,
Im a hindu girl and in love with a muslim guy.
We are having a 2 years relationship and intially i told my parents about him but he threated to kill himself. After a knowing that i convinced him i will not go against his will. In last two years we are in deep love and unable to live apart. We both are well educated and working as Software engineer thus we totaly understand the seriousness of the situaltion.
In these 2 yrs my parents rigourously searchd boy for marriage and now they fixed my marriage. I told my mother but she is helpless as i hav younger sister n she fears of my father health n society . He too told his parents dat lead to his dad into sudden depresion and he was admitd in hospital. Thus both sides we failed to convince trying our level best. Now we both are crying and have no choice left. Please help me what should i do as i couldnt accept any1 else... Im totaly depresd

You seem quite helpless.
It is a colossal situation, you need deal it with great sensitivity.
You should think twice before surfacing this topic again. Let everything calm down, let his dad recover too and then approach it again.
You should make both the families sit together and confront that it is your life and living with someone your entire life is your call..
If this doesn't work.. Ask your heart..what do you want ! If its your love, then elope.. and if its your family, secure their reputation in society and marry someone of your parent's choice
ALL THE VERY BEST

This is a converse and very difficult situation where there is a total religion difference and according to our society rules, marrying either a muslim girl or boy is treated as a serious offense to our religion, no I am not being stereotypical on any religion or caste nor do I support such kind of stereotypical beliefs, but this is a bitter truth and reality that the lovers of different religion face while making their parents understand about their love. Moreover, the fear of society and neighbor makes them more helpless and they can not gather courage to go against the so called SOCIETY which has laid down these unnecessary rules and regulations..
You have to make your parents understand that the generation and the world is moving very fast and everything has got advanced, they also should not believe such stereotypical beliefs and restrict two lovers from getting married just because of the religion or caste difference, all they are doing is becoming the reasons for the grief and sorrow of their children by not letting them marry the partners of their choice with whom they share good understanding and trust, and making them marry to altogether different person whom they have never met or talked. So, you have to make your parents understand this and convince them to support you in marrying your love and be happy. This might be difficult for you and your partner both but don't loose hopes, but for now I would say, keep it cool and calm down and let all these hyper situations settle down and calm down and then again approach your parents and try to convince them.

Its a tough situation but its all worth for your love. How can your parents fix your marriage without your permission. Be strong girl fight with them that they can't do that to you. Also explain them politely that u can't have same love and affection for someone else as you have for your boyfriend. I am sure they will understand. Also try to make them understand that whats more important to them the society norms or your happiness. God is one but hard to explain to old generation.