Hi, the weekend came but nothing happened at my home. My parents had said that they wud call everyone home for discussion but nothing really happened. It may be because my taiji met with an accident and fractured her leg so may be my parents are waiting for her to come back from hospital. Again they are not talking to me. They keep talking with each other quitely about how i have betrayed them and keep talking about past. The whole atmosphere of the house is very quite, no one talks. My parents keep sitting in one room and me n my bro in other room. My bro is 19 and this time he has also tried to convince my mom and dad but they kept on telling him to shut up as he is too young to intervene. Iam just being patient and waiting. Lets see what happens.........

This is lots of talking, its very bad to see how things have turned out to be here. I think your parents are really hurt and you should do something about them too. I don't know what but its parents who gives you all love , love more than any one can ever give. It would be sadest thing to hurt them.

I think you should involve someone elderly in it, someone who is respected by your parents and if he / she can wisely convey positive points to your parents about your marriage with guy then definitely it will make a big difference. It is because there is nothing bigger than living life with one you really love. Also, you can tell them that you know him all , all his good and bad.. what is the guarantee if they get another groom and he turned out to be someone shitty , how you gonna know ?

Hi Isha,


See, the whole matter is discussed and agreed upon. I would like you to wait and watch. Meanwhile, ask your boyfriend to take some step forward and try to talk to your parents, organize a meeting between both the families and assure them that you are in safe and secure hands and that, he will do his level best to keep you happy.

Rest all will pass with time. Don't worry.

Hi again one month passed. On its August I again talked to my mother. While she was in office I msgd her " iam sorry mummy and papa for hurting u. I love u a lot. I don't like the current atmosphere of the house. Not talking is not a solution for ny prob. Lets sit and talk and resolve the matter." Then in the evening my mother returned and said now do u realise ur mistake I said mummy pls. Talk to him once at least once. Then she started of again. Same old dialogues. She said me and ur father are stick on our point we don't agree at all. She said papa knows everything aise private jobs ka koi barosa nahi hota we wanted some govt. servant with a secured job. Tu Hamara standard gira rahi hai. Tujhe Bhagna hai toh Bhagg ja ek bar hi toh bezzati hogi. Koi bat nahi. Jab tu jayegi hum tush se sare papers mei sign karayenge ki tera humse koi rishta nahi aur koi relatives tujhse rishta rakhenge toh who Hamari insult karenge. What should I do now ????????

ishika i read all the talk with your parents. i has been tried all the things. you can.t believe on me same situation is with me. my father don.t talk with me from last 11 months and my mom from since 5 months. i also tried many things like astrologer and waste money more than 50,000. now i have nothing in my hand. can you believe on me i m single son of my parents. my parents directly say me you has been died for us and everything we have we will give their daughter.
but i just want to give you one suggestion your love is true. you can go for court marriage and live happyly. i promise you after marriage they will aggree with your marriage.
ek bat bolu sbse bda rog kya khenge log.. agar ye sochoge then i promise you, you will not be able to happy in your life. insan jo sochta hai bhi ban jata h..
ap dono shadi kar lo,, all member of your family will aggree after your marriage..
all the best..

I can see my future in your story dear... I pray u succeed in this...n so does me...