hi sir i am from Gujarat i am upper middle class boy age 23 years and i am working with very reputed brand as a manager and i am capable to handle my family irresponsibility..
i m so much love to my girlfriend she is also love me and she belongs to my cast but her parents are not ready for marriage with me without any reason. i am financial capable however they are not ready for our marriage.
we want to do court marriage.
please tell me complete procedure for it without her parents involvement.

Hi Dear Friend,


On a very frank note, I really don't appreciate a person getting married to his/her love secretly. I strongly recommend you not to go for the court marriage or even marry her by keeping your families in dark. You can talk to her parents and get to know the exact reason of their rejection to your relationship. We can then discuss the matter on an open forum like this.

But just to answer your question, you can get in touch with any private advocate to know about the court marriage procedure.

Well this is what I too oppose to do and I don't support anybody eloping and marrying and keeping parents in dark. My friend rather deciding to elope and get married, you may try to find out the reason why the girl's parents are not ready for the marriage of their daughter to you, your girl may help you in this concern, tell her to ask her parents for the reason they might not give her the exact reason for the non approval of your marriage, but she has to probe and force them to answer as it is the question of your lives, by not making you marry your girl they are directly ruining life of both of you apart from that they will indirectly ruin two other lives as well and that is of the girl's future husband(If not you) and your future wife, as you both may not be able to give such respect and love to the future husband/wife as you both share with each other, you have to make her parents understand that they can surely influence on matters like marriage but they do not possess any right to ruin lives of 4 people at a time, and try convincing them but make sure you are behaving in a very polite manner and polite way while talking to her parents coz we have to win their hearts in a polite way and not by hurting them or by eloping and betraying their trust.
For now what I would suggest is try talking to her parents and find out the reason, you may invite them for dinner at your place and let the elders talk on this matter or you may even tell your gf to invite you and your parents at her place to talk for the marriage I think this may sound even better rather then the first part....