Hey guys,
I am pretty much shy on bieng romantic with my girlfirend whether being face to face or on phone. How other guys become so romantic on phone itself when neither they can see their girlfriend nor can feel them? Any one here facing the same situation or was having the same problem please share your experience as well as how did you got rid of the problem?
Please answer me ASAP because it is really a sensitive matter for me.

Hi raameshwar,


There is no direct way of talking or behaving romantically over phone or in person with your girlfriend. Its a feeling that comes from within and hence, is natural.

Every girl wants her to be noticed. The sexiest thing about any boyfriend could be the way he would look at her. I am pretty sure, your girlfriend must have something that makes her different from others. It could be anything, from and gestures, facial expressions to particular words used by her frequently. The more minutely you notice your girlfriend, more descriptive you can be.
Tell her all things you have noticed in her. Tell her what things in her make her special in your eyes. Its not wrong if you go a step down at the level of your girlfriend and talk to her about things she like, for example, discuss about her wardrobe, jewelry..things that girl's discuss with each other. There is absolutely no harm if you do it once a while. Give her a feeling that she can feel comfortable in discussing about her choices with you. Taunt her, tease her, flatter her, flirt with her and most importantly do away with this shyness.

I really don't know what level of closeness you both share but I am assume things are going fine and you both seriously look forward to your future. So, if this is the case, you can tease your girlfriend discussing with her about your future plans, family planning etc.

You need to be more creative and imaginative. Think of a situation and tell her what would you do with her then. For instance, what would you guys do if you both get a chance to stay whole night on a sea beach with cool breeze flowing over you, etc ?

So, be more imaginative and creative. Tell her things nobody ever told her and make a difference. Keep the passion on !!

Hey raameshwar,

In my opinion no one can learn to be romantic. Its just in da nature. So i would suggest you to be just be genuine while talking to ur girlfriend. Just talk wat u like and wat she likes. No need of being overfancy. And you will notice that the same talks have become romantic if you and your mate have fun in those moments.

Originally Posted by ashwani121

Hey raameshwar,

In my opinion no one can learn to be romantic. Its just in da nature. So i would suggest you to be just be genuine while talking to ur girlfriend. Just talk wat u like and wat she likes. No need of being overfancy. And you will notice that the same talks have become romantic if you and your mate have fun in those moments.

I agree with ashwani... aur ashwani tumhe kaafi experience hai yeh mujhe aaj pata chala.. lage raho...

I think if a girl knows what kind of guy you are then there should not be any problem. Don't try to be something that you are not. Just be yourself and tell her what you feel about her. Share your every feelings with her. Let her too share something, In this way you can proceed ahead.

this is depend on what you talk each other..what time ... what type ...so you can start romantic chat ...