meyra nam mannu hai aur mai ek muslim ladike hu. mai jisey pyar karahihu oo brahmin hai aur ek acha MNC mey kamkartha hai. hamlog 7 salsey pyar karrahey hai. mai aapaney bareymey mom ko bathaya, oo bolth hai ki ladaka ok leykin shadhi maney bina society mey nam nahi jana hai. tum kuchbhi karlo leykin society mey fame nahi jana hai. tho mainey pucha tho oo bolthi hai ki kisi ma bap ko adopt karkey muslim ki tharha ana thab karungi,just for society. wht to do sir. mainey aabhithak papa ko nahi bathaya hai, mom bolthi hai ki pahaley ye kar muje, ok lagatho mai jakar papa ko samjaungi. plz help me

Hello Hazara,
Aslam Valikom,
Pehle to me kehna chahunga, ki agar aap 7 saal se ek sath ho or ek duje se boht pyar karte ho, to aap ye jaanlo ki pyar jaati, dharm, mazhab ya or koi tarike ke bhedbhav nahi jaanta ye to bas itna jaanta hai ki do insaan ek duje ko pasand aa gaye or ve ek sath rehte hai q k dono ko ek duje ke sath rehna pasand hai, or dusri baat, agar us ladke se saccha pyar karti hai, to aap ko apki maa ki sharto ko na manzur karna chahiye, q k kisi b insan ko apne dharam ya mazhab ko badal kar pyar karna yaani samjhota karna hua or pyar me samjhota nahi hota, pyar ek bohot hi paak cheez hai, ise in dharam or mazhab ke bhedo me ghol ke ise dushit na kare, agar aap pyaar karte ho to aap apke mom or dad ko samjhaye ki jaat paat jesi koi b cheez maine nai rakhti, jaruri ye nahi ki wo ladka konse jaati ka ya dharm ka hai jaruri ye hai ki wo apki beti se kitna pyaar karta hai or apki beti uske sath kitni khush rahegi.
Ye sab kehne se pehle me ye puchna chahunga ki, kya aapne us ladke se pucha hai, yadi uske mata pita b is shaadi ke liye taiyar hai ya nai, q k dono hi taraf se manzuri milna jaruri hai....