Am writing this message hoping i could find a solution to the problem am facing now..
Actually, am confused a nd disturbed . 3 men were there in my life who proposed me and wished to marry me. But, i couldnt. love any one of them back.because not any of them were attractive to me or was my 'prince charming'.Now, am single , my parents want me to get married and finally, i think i will have an arangd marriage. Have i done anythig wrong by rejecting the ones who loved me? I may find someone who is.attractive..but, there is no.surety dat he will love me back with the same intensity?? I dont know whether am taking a wrong decision about my life...Would like to get some expert advice..

Hi sivam6205,


It was absolutely a right decision not to accept their proposals. When you don't love someone ( by whatever reasons ), you should not get in a relationship with them for the sake of having a boyfriend/girlfriend.

You did right by taking a stand then. In a way, you valued someone's emotions and feelings and didn't play with it. You had your own reasons to reject them...you have your own ways to judge your 'prince charming' and if none of these three guys were able to make up to you, its good that they should be shown the reality.

So, there is nothing wrong in what you did. You were honest and true to your feelings, which very few people do.
There is nothing to worry about it. I am sure you will get someone who would be attractive and who would love you alot as well. In a way, he will be in actual your 'prince charming'.

Thanku for your reply. Now, i think i have taken a right decision .I feel relieved.

Originally Posted by Pulkit

Hi sivam6205,


It was absolutely a right decision not to accept their proposals. When you don't love someone ( by whatever reasons ), you should not get in a relationship with them for the sake of having a boyfriend/girlfriend.

You did right by taking a stand then. In a way, you valued someone's emotions and feelings and didn't play with it. You had your own reasons to reject them...you have your own ways to judge your 'prince charming' and if none of these three guys were able to make up to you, its good that they should be shown the reality.

So, there is nothing wrong in what you did. You were honest and true to your feelings, which very few people do.
There is nothing to worry about it. I am sure you will get someone who would be attractive and who would love you alot as well. In a way, he will be in actual your 'prince charming'.