I have a strange problem in my love. There is this guy who I had a crush on since about an year.
He suddenly proposed and I was so happy. But my family completely opposed this because of caste differences. He hails from a scheduled caste.
I am from a forward caste. My sister says that if I am 100% confident that I will face any difficulties that Iwill face by changing my caste and facing all the queries of the fellow beings then only I should go for it.
My daddy is against it completely. I also have this caste feeling but I love him. For me they are two seperate things. Him and his caste.
I want him but not his caste. I dont know how his family is. I have no chance to know. We are working in US and they all are in India.
Now how do I decide if I shd go with him or with my family.
My family is not agreeing. I cannot go away with him. I cant miss him. But I dont want his caste. I cant leave him. I cant go with him.
Please suggest what I shd do. I am hurting him with this delay.