can anyone help....
i met adj some months ago and we have spoken with each other whenever bumping into one another, just recently our friendship developed further to him poping round to mine. he behaved with both restraint and respect by not trying to get into my underwere! lol ;D
in past conversations he has mentioned that he wants to marry and have more children, he is already married with one child, i asked him about this and he said that as a muslim he can have upto 4 wifes and that once he meets and gets to know someone special he hopes that he would marry them. call it womens intuition but i have been getting the strongest notion that he has set his radar on me, that in itself i have no problem with as he seems very nice and i like getting to know him. the problem i face and hope people here can help me with is that if he does ask me to be his wife in the months/years ahead or even if we are only destaind to be friends i would like to better understand the pros and cons of a multi marriage/family works so that i can make the right choice for me in future or to better understand him as a friend. i was not brought up with my asian heritage and he has been teaching me little bits but this is gonna take me some time to get my head round. any advice welcomed and if anyone is married to more than one wife please would you advise