Dear Sir,
Greetings and best wishes for you. Hope you have a great day ahead and all your dreams come true.
Let me introduce myself to you. I am Ramana Prasad from Tirupati. I am an internet cafe owner by profession. I got married 6 months back to Rajyalakshmi, a magistrate and have already experienced million tonnes of humiliation and am heavily dejected.I didn't take any dowry. I Actually, this is my second marriage. I have got married earlier and after bitter acrimony of 8 years of marriage, i have got divorced after 2 years of separation on mutual consideration. I could get married only after 5 years after divorce. I am the only man in my family to have got divorced in around 100 years. There is a big stigma attached to the psyche of my life.
The problem started on the 15th day after my marriage. She wanted to show off that she has a car and many a time tried to humiliate me for neither having a car nor able to drive one. I belong to a middle class family and there was no way that i could afford a car. The logic is simple : As she is a magistrate, Judiciary has given her a loan for having a car and also provides her with 75 litres of petrol. If she was not in Judiciary ( She was from middle class before she had joined service), she would neither have purchased a car nor learnt car driving. Since i don't have a car of my own, i haven't learned to drive a car. She has become a big menace in my life. Her soul aim in life is to humiliate me on one context or the other. Naturally, i have revolted and talked back to her several times. After all i am a human being who has guts and gumption and i definitely cannot tolerate, brook any nonsense from her.There are times when i have compromised but she is so adamant that she would feel happy only if she humiliates me atleast once in a day. She told me once that she would wait for one year before going for divorce. I have asked her to prepare for such an eventuality coz all my life, i have been fighting bitterly with women for no fault of mine. Before marriage, i have was shocked to know that i couldn't stay with her as i came to know that the rules and regulations of judiciary would not permit a husband to stay with the wife, who is a magistrate, with husband pursuing either his business or working for a company or any other organization. Still i agreed to her proposal and have told her that i would be staying in her place for every 15 days. I would relate one incident to you. Since i have already expressed that i cannot pursue any business or do any work, i have to stay idle whenever i go there. She relishes such kind of helplessness. She is a sadist to the core. Unable to tolerate loneliness ( since i had to stay at her quarters till she comes home for lunch), i have told her that i would be coming to her court office to while away my time .It so happened that i was asked to attend a farewell function in her office. I went there late as i went out to check my mails in the internet cafe nearby.She was already in the office by the time i went there. She didn't get up and offer me a seat. She says that since i am a magistrate, i would not get up from my seat. How stupid!!! She says that she has to follow protocols when she is in the court. It is true that i shouldn't have attended her court office, but, to humiliate me in such a bad way in front of her staff is something i couldn't digest for a very long time. This is just an icing in the cake. I just wonder if all the magistrates who are women behave like autocrats and humiliate their husbands.There are million incidents which took place in these six months that you would get bored listening to them. I would like to know the rights of a husband who had married a magistrate so that i can teach a fitting lesson to her so that she would never forget me throughout her life.
Please help me in this regard and suggest me a way out, a solution for my problem for which i shall be indebted to you forever.
Sincerely,
Prasad