Problem of Intercaste Marriage (Garhwali Brahmin girl and non-Brahmin Garwali boy)
Hi everyone.I am 22 years old hindu (Garhwali Brahmin) girl and my boyfriend is hindu (non- Brahmin Garhwali). we are being in a relationship for the last 5 years.We tried to forget each other but it is not possible for us to do so
I have completed my education in technical field this year but he is doing MBA and will be out in 2014.I have not told my parents about him as he is still in college and my parents are very traditional and strict about marriage and all.i love them so much and don't want to hurt them.They love me too.
If I let my parents to know about him I don't know how will they react.May be they will force me to marry to someone else or they will say he is not doing any job,not from your field and the main problem is caste.they will never accept him.
In fact they are seeking a guy for me and I cant stop them.when I say I don't want to marry right now please wait for sometime they say get engaged with a guy whom we want and then marry when you want.
This is very tough situation for both of us,everyday is passing in cry.As he is in college I've to wait for 2 more years to tell to my parents.
We can't leave each other please help me what to do and how to convince my parents.Thanks a lot.
how to face the situation which iam suffering from right now
Thank You Mr.Pulkit
I have full faith on him,I know him from the time when I was 14 plus,we were classmates earlier,then we fell for each other,he will definitely do his best in making our future bright.
My Parents like a guy and they asked me to talk to the guy, I said no but no one was in my favour, everyone was like just talk,if u don't like him say no.
I talked to him,but obviously i don't like him when I already have someone in my life,but I think he likes me.My friends are saying just tell him about your love,but I did'n told him about my boyfriend,because this could lead to a disaster.And if I say no to my parents they will ask me for the reason,because he is good looking,from the same field & reputed family, and from my caste,but how could i marry him.And I can't tell my parents too about my love.And if just for my happiness my parents reject the proposal,Some people(my relatives who found the marriage proposal) they will criticise me and my parents which i don't want.
If i tell my parents right now I think they will force me to marry the guy They found for me.I and my boyfriend,we don't want to go against our parents,but it is also true we can't fall in love again.His family knows about me and i know they will accept me.But problem is with me,my parents are very proud of me,I always tried to make them happy,I was a very studious student and in the list of toppers,but I don't know how will they feel after this,they don't expect this from me.It feels like miserable