Help me to confince my boyfriend to get married soon

hi,

i m loving one guy from past 2yrs. we both are nearly same age m 26, he is 27. we both are working in different gud companies. In my home,my parents want me to get married soon and they started searching guy for me, at tat time i informed my parents abt our love. Starting everybody opposed and after 6 months of struggle i made them to agree somehow. nw only he went and said to his parents, but they are not agreeing and if u want to marry her, u both ve to wait for 3yrs later will see lik that his parents are telling. But my parents already they are pressurizing me to get marry fast coz of my age. His parents thinking lik still he wants get settle dwn in his life before marriage. My parents really this much agreed and came down , now i cant go and ask my parents to wait for another 3 yrs, what to do? How to convince him to agree to do marriage soon? please help

You are in very tough situation but your boyfriend is not wrong either. From all your explanation, I can see that he still not well-satisfied with his career and wants to get it more stable before marriage. But, he is ignoring one important thing, that is you are also an earning person. Ask him that do not worry about career and expenses, together you both can manage meanwhile he can continue concentrating on his career.

Hi nilani123,


Since you both are working with good firms, I guess, you guys are earning well enough to support a decent livelihood for you. Frankly speaking, today, a time has come, when its very much necessary that both - husband and wife, should earn well. Owing to the economic conditions and recession, its very difficult for the husband to offer his family a decent living, from whatever he earns and hence, its very much required that both of people should earn.

So, talk to your boyfriend on this and explain to him the things that if his parents are expecting you to sit at home and do the daily household chores, just as a housewife or a home-maker would do, they are wrong. Even after 3 years, economic conditions would differ, they might get worse, as projected.
Also, 27 years is the right age for any guy to get married. After 3 years you guys will be well settled in life. You might have a kid by then and things would be clear to much extend. You will be able to plan better for your future. There is no point in delaying the marriage unnecessarily till 30.

So, talk to your boyfriend on this and come out with something positive.