Is this flirting or does he really likes or love me(I am about to get Divorce)?
I'm awaiting my Divorce. I recently got a new friend and he was comforting and consoling me to get out of life that iam living. Before the start of friendship, I wanted to make sure it doesnt end up with something else and asked what will he do if he starts liking me or what will he do if i start liking him. This was asked only because, right from the starting he was saying like he likes me as a friend. We became close friends. He took me to movies, malls and was a good friend and companion. He started saying every other day like i look beautiful in every other dress that i wear. When he was out of town, he started saying he misses me and will not be able to see me wearing those beautiful outfits. Many times i used to say he is flirting. He didn't mind. Many days he asked me like he will give me company at home for atleast 2-3 hrs as iam alone at home. He was saying like he wants to see me in those dresses that i dont wear to office. Once he said, I shall lift you and walk all way and massage your legs as you say its paining. I replied i have my dad at home to do that and he cant be talking like that to me. One day he asked me "do you like me?". My answer was I like your height as he is tall. He was avoiding me and i couldnt bare that and told him i feel hard if he doesnt talk to me and he asked me are Have you started liking me? Are we in the wrong route? What if I start liking you? what will happen if we both get physically attracted to each other?
He says iam adamant and dominating and friendship rapport wouldn't set and he doesnt wants to talk to me as he is in a very big problem because of a girl who was his neighbour.
Now we arent talking and iam sending those many mails and messages. He has blocked me everywhere. He is least bothered to respond back. I'm going mad. I loved my husband vary badly but now ready for a Divorce with a very great difficulty. My married life was very painful, dreadful. Now going through a new pain.
Friends could you please help me out? Does this guy like me or is he a flirt?