Married with Muslim boy-Disturbed from Society thinking it crime
HI
I am hindu girl married with muslim boy we are happy & living together and me & his family, friends are also happy with our relations. but i think society peoples are not happy with us. Yahi sab soach kar mera mann bahut upset rehta hai maine kuch galat kar liya kya har time god se pray karti rehti hu ye kya hogaya kaise logo ko face karungi, meri ise intercast marriage ke log crime samanjne lage hai. Mujhe apne hubby or uski family se koi problem nahi hai even they are very supportive in everytime.But society ke log kabhi accha bolte hai kabhi galat bolte hai main ye sab nahi tolerate kar sakti. Please help how i can face this situation. mujhe dar lagta hai in sabka asar humare relation ke karab na karde.
Married with Muslim boy-Disturbed from Society thinking it crime
Hello Friends,
Mein aapse apni story pehle bhi share kar chukhi hu...after 4 years my In-laws forcing me learn muslim culture like reading namaz & eat chicken etc....but i can learn only namaj but can't eat chicken. Mere In-laws humare sath nahi rahte hum delhi mein hai aur wo UP mein. But kabhi yaha ate hai ya hum waha jate hai. But problem ye hai ki mere hubby ke samne kabhi mujhe force nahi karte unki absence mein mujhe baat karte hai. Jab maine apne husband se ye sab problem share ke to he said tume kuch bhi forcefully karne ki jarurat nahi hai jab tumare mann ho tab karna. He said mein unse baat karunga aur tumhe waha jane ke jarurat nahi hai. Ab mujhe feel hota hai life bahut lambi hai main idon't want mere wajah se wo apni family se fight kare. Maine jab unse alag hone ki baat ki to he said main insabse door chalajaunga mujhe kisi ke need nahi hai na family ke na tumari. because he can't live without me But vo kab tak mere liye fight karenge unki family bahut sticks hai ya to relation spoil kar lenge par baat nahi manegay. Kabhi to intna accha behave karege inse acche shyad koi in-laws hai hi nahi suddenly ek dam opposite. Meri sister-in-law ne bhi christian se love marriage ke hai but ladke ko muslim banaya tha than Shadi ke thi now she is following both rituals. Beti kar sakti hai par beta aur bahu nahi..
Me & my hubby we love each others a lot and we also respect both ritual aur meri family aur wo acche se adjust ho gaye hai. I am very tensed i can't live without him because i love him very much. But unki family ke sath adjust karna bahut tuff hai abhi to hum saprate hai incase kabhi future mein eksath adjust nahi kar sakti. But hubby said again & again mein hu tumhe koi problem nahi hogi. But wo bhi mere liya kab tak fight karenge ya to relations spoil honge ya humara rishta. 4 years tak sab kuch itna accha chal raha tha suddenly wo kuch dino ke aye aur unki maan ke sabhi feelings samne aagayi.. mein unki family ko unse dur karke bhi nahi reh sakti hai hubby to kahte hai mujhe baat karne do relation spoil hote hai to hone do. Please advise what can i do....