How to Tell if It’s a - Crush or Love

You notice this real cool guy in your college. You totally love his sense of humor, his dressing sense and his dimpled smile, but every time you pass by him, you feel butterflies dancing in your stomach and your cheeks get all pink and red.
You have no idea who he is, never ever spoken to him, yet you feel embarrassed and nervous on the very sight of him. You begin jumbling up your words.
If this is how you feel on noticing that “special one”�, Well, it sounds like you have a crush.
As we grow up, along with our body, our feeling also change. They become more matured. A “crush”� is that special feeling you develop for someone you really like. You may like this person because of his dressing sense, the way he speaks or even his sense of humor etc. When you have a crush on someone, you fall into a dilemma. You wonder whether you like him or love him.
Your crush can be a neighbor, your classmate, your best friend, a friend of your sister or brother, an older kid, or even a teacher at your school.
Its not strange if you get this funny feeling when you are around that “special person”�. You may feel giddy, tongue tied, speechless and shy.
Crushes may last for a few days or weeks and sometimes even months, or longer.




You have this best friend who has been with you from the past 2-3 years. He is an all rounder. Excellent, in studies, on the field, on the stage, a very charming and a handsome guy with loads of wits and humor. You just love being with him the whole day.
You now begin to think more and more about this guy. At one moment you feel you are in love with him and the very next moment, you say “no he is my best friend.”
Well, we are here to wipe away this dilemma of your’s.

Here are few ways you could differentiate between friend, crush or love:

• Sit in a quite room and talk to yourself. Try finding out from yourself if you like him because of his looks, wits and humour or is it that because he understands you more that you understand yourself, this liking has developed.
• Does your affection for him comes out genuinely or is it that this affection comes out for your own selfish needs? It can so happen that just because you got out of a long relationship, you are trying to find comfort in him, or just to make your ex jealous, you are going around with the hottest guy.
• Is it that you spend a lot of time with him, help him in all that he does, and know him in and out? Well, then this is nothing but pure friendship.These are few tips and situation which could help you differentiate between friendship, crush and love.
  
  
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