In love with an economically backword person - my driver
hi,
i am a 23 year old architect from a high class family..i am the only child of my parents..i am in love with a guy with low economic background.he is not educated and is a driver..he is our driver and he is well accepted in my family as a friend too..we were also gud frnds and our relationship started wen i was faced with a crucial problem in my life where i couldnt involve my parents. we thought we would just go for a temporary relationship as it is not possible for my parents to accept it...but in the course of time we couldnt stop our relationship. it has been 1 year now and we are very deeply in love...despite his low economic background, he is a very gud person, very cultured and well behaved..nobody has a bad opinion abt his character..he was always and is still very guilty abt loving me as he says he is cheating my parents..nw my parents came to kno abt it and they wont accept it..they said they couldnt even imagine it....but me and my guy are in a stage where we cannot get separated...i gave it a lot of thought and i am not able to forget him or marry off to another guy...now that things hav reached to this level, i have decided that if i get married, it wil be only to him..but i dont like the idea of eloping becoz it wil giv a huge shock to my parents..they even said they would commit suicide if i continue my relationship...nw i hav told them i hav stopped the relationship just to hav sme peace at home...nw i am in between my loving parents and my loving boyfriend...i cannot think up of a solution..can anybody giv me suggestions pls.
(pls donot take this as a foolish relationship by a foolish girl...i am an educated person and i have my own reasons for being so sure about him)