Originally Posted by
Pulkit
Well.... if he is thinking like this, he definitely loves you alot. Tell me what are men best known for ? Looks? Style ? Beauty ?... Definitely Not. Men are best known for their financial stability and their caring nature. And if they become financially unstable, they are bound to get weak.
And when they have a responsibility on them, when they have to take care of someone they love, it gets really difficult to sustain. Its natural for them to fall apart.
Similar is what happenning with your boyfriend. His financial challenges and present situation has disturbed him alot mentally and he wants you to leave him because he doesn't want you to be a part of his problems. He knows that you don't deserve all this, that you are someone he would always like to treat in no less than a princess, that his promises to give you a healthy and beautiful life dont seem like fulfilling, which is why he is tensed and wants you to leave him to go for a better person who could keep you happy.
Don't worry, when problems strike, every man behaves in exactly same manner. I might have done the same. Its in nature thatwe cannot see our spouses in trouble, we cannot see them crying because of us.
All you got to do is, say to him putting all your faith in him that you're not going to leave him even if it gets worser. Tell him, love is not about always sharing the good moments, good life, happiness and joy. When you love someone, you share his sorrows as well, become a part of his journey through his difficult times and that's what exactly you gonna do. Ask him to "shut up" his mouth and concentrate on things on priority right now. Ask him not to bring this thought in his mind ever again. You will always be with him, no matter what.