i am so confused - same caste still father playing mind game!

hi,
i am 23 yrs old i love a guy... we both are in love since 3 yrs..there is no problem from his family
but my family is not convincing.. i tried my best to convince them but in vain.....he is well educated and
doing well..... we are same cast.... uske father ne mere father se baat bhi ki in this topic... my father said ki
give some time to think about the matter ..i will let u know my decision....
but on the other hand he is playing a mind game ..


main apni family se dur rah ker padai kar rahi hun......now my father wants me to come back home...
and he is searching a match for me....i dont know what to do now i am totally blank.....
plz help me.....:confused:

Hi sufi,



Please detail us about what mind games, you think your father is playing? Kindly give an account of what conversation both had when your boyfriend's father called your father.