In love with guy from same college but orthodox family not accepting

hi i am 18 years old and i m in love with a guy of 19 . he also loves me alot . we are in same college . we really love each other . we want to marry . but my family will not going to agrry for this and the main reason of this is caste problem . but i m sure that i would die without him nd he too.but the problm is my father is very ortho dogs type nd hi is really strict . i cannot run nd marry him . if i do so my father will die nd my family would be distroyed. please help me i really cant live without him . please give some suggestions

Hi tammy,


Your age that you have mentioned here, is a very young age. You're just 18 and your guy is just 19. He is even not eligible for marriage, legally, in India.
Also, you have many years to come and pass by before you get married. Right now, its time that you should concentrate on your respective careers and studies. Try to gain a foothold in life, first. When you have done good in life, have a settled and good earning job, parents do not interfere with your marriage.

So, we'll talk about your marriage, when the time is right. Ok?