Love in the time of caste.Rajput Boy and Brahmin girl

Hi all...
I m a Rajput boy 28 years of age, i love a girl from brahmin community. we want to marry eachother as we r in deep love and respect for one another. My family is quite understandable and ready to accept the girl provided that her parents also agree and give their consent to our marriage. Now Problem is that her parents are very adamant and say that caste is a big issue for them, and just for the sake of our happy married life we cant face the entire samaj and their disharmony. Her dad is SI in Police.
Please advise me genuinely what shaould I do because neither I want to put the respect of my parents and her parents on stake nor I want to marry any other girl...

Hi Deepak,

There are many people with same a problem same in nature as of yours. Would request you to browse through the forum to check out other posts which has the same content. Go through the answers given there and I believe they will be helpful.