Love marriage- Run and marry in court against girl's parents wish?
hi, My name is Priyank. I am currently working in Bangalore from last 2 years, my age is 27 and i love a girl whose age is 24 years. We are in a relation from last 2 years and want to marry each other now. we are from different caste and it was really difficult to manage this, though i convinced my parents anyhow, now girl's parents not ready for our marriage as they think inter caste marriage is not good. she is trying to convince them from last 6 months and tried everything to explain them. they are not ready to listen anything and now they will fix her marriage with some other guy in next 3-4 months, she is opposing her parents. She wants me to do court marriage with her but if we go with that then the girls parents might harm both of us, do not know till what extent. I am in a situation where i cannot leave my girl and cannot see any other way except run & marry against parents. Can you all please suggest what should i do??
Run and marry in court against girl's parents wish?
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Hi everyone!!!
@Pulkit- Buddy i have everything in books to convince the girls parents but they somehow are not agreeing, just cant understand why???
I am a well settled guy and can determinately can give that girl a happy life to live.....
Buddy we both love each other very much and just can't imagine my life without her..
And why not we live in a Free country... Don't we have a right to marry whom we live in this country...I am in a state of dilemma and confusion??????
Ofcourse you do have the rights to marry the person of your choice...ofcourse you are living in a free country...ofcourse you are well settled and determinatly can give that girl a happy life to live.... but sir let me remind you, even with all these things working your way, you have posted this question here. It clearly means that you are bothered enough for the future...... you are bothered for your and her families.... you are bothered for your and her well being.
The free country that you are talking about also gives you the right to sue the person in court whosoever interferes with your marriage. So by this token you can also sue her parents, but you are not doing so !!! Its just because you have an emotional bonding with her and she has it with her parents.
See, if you run away and marry in court, there is absolutely no problem involved in it. Nobody on this earth can deny that marriage. But its just the emotions that are dominating over laws. Either be unemotional and marry her in court and let the world do whatever they want to. Put a " I Don't Care " status and ask them to mind their own business OR handle the situation.
If things are not working your way, either compromise or win the battle. But trust me sir, you, yourself wont be happy at the end even after winning....!!!! Now its upto you to decide which way to choose.....!!!
Convincing parents, I know is not at all an easy task. You have tried once with all your efforts, try again afresh. Try and try until either they compromise on you or they are bound to believe that nobody on earth can keep her more happy than you. Afterall, parents want in the end is their children's happiness. If they are convinced with the fact that nobody can keep her happy more than you do, they will agree for the match.
That is all I can honestly advice you....!!! Try, try and try again and again..... its the only thing you can do if you cannot go and marry her in the court.
OR
Forget her...ask her to forget you...and move on. Take it for granted that she will be happy and life will make you happy anyhow. Time is the greatest healer. Thats it !!!
All The Best !!!
Take Care !!!
Shyam Sunder (Social Worker)
Dear Sir, I viewed all above suggestion for you. I understand your situation. Both of you love each other and even both of you are ready to run away from home. I advice you that never let her go since both of you love each other. You tried a lot to convince her parent but they are not ready means they are not caring for her daughter, they are not understanding her feelings and happiness. So in this situation you should also never care for her parent. Just go ahead. Take running away from home as your last option since there are other options also available. Do legal process, take help of any good lawyer and go for court marriage. I know if both of you love each other then living with love is waste of life. That is just spending life not actual mean of living life. Dont waste your and your lover's life. Go for court marriage. Our organization will help you our best.
For more and detailed help You can contact to me with this cell no. 09457701795 or mail me. [email protected]. My brother we are always with you. Since your fight is not only yours its our fight.
