Marriage issue as bride's family forcing me marry soon or else...

PLEASE HELP
friends i am going through a very tough time.....
i love a girl and she took my stand in the time when her father was dying of cancer. Later her father died. Now due to some problem i am not able to get a proper job, my parents are not ready for marriage until i get a proper job. So she is saying that we will marry without parents permission and she will help me financially but problem is that we both belong to a old mentality muslim family and in our community doing such thing causes disgrace to the family besides this i have 3 sisters and taking such a step can cause a great problem to their marriage. i am totally confused what to do....????
Her family is forcing her to marry fast and if i wont take a step soon then she will be forcefully married to some one else...
Dont know what to do....??? whom to choose n what step to take...??? PLEASE HELP

Indeed its a tough situation for you, I only see solution as to wait for sometimes, definitely you can't just revolt and marry you girl of dreams as this act may hamper your sister's marriage.

You can go for minimal ring ceremony as it can buy some time for you and then try to handle things till you get a decent job.