What's important in life- love, money, status, respect, image ..when taking marriage

whtz more important in life?? and while taking a decision of marriage??

love, money, status, respect, image.. i used to think that a person needs everything in life,,.

the person i'm in a relationship with. he loves me, i knw, d most...
he's earning money... a lot..
but today i came to knw dat all he's earning is .. black business.. almost a gunda.. no respect.. negative image
he says he'l leave al these things.. n start a new business.. nd earn white money..

my parents are very hardworking ppl... both of them worked hard nd never did any wrong things... they say its better to be poor than doing wrong things......
even i think so.. i'm a hardworking person.. working in ngo.. helping ppl.. earning less.. that ws my dream.. to help others..
i never thot to marry such ppl... bt i'm too much in love with him??

cnt take any decision
??

Hi There,


Whatsoever reasons he is giving you or how so much he is convincing you for the marriage, I suggest you shouldn't go for it. Even if he promises to leave everything, its better to stay away from the alliance. Remember, a criminal or for that matter a negative profiled person will never tell you his completely crimes. He will always tell you the shorter version of his deeds, something which you can digest and don't panic about. Rest, what is the bigger part is always hidden from you.

Moreover, you don't know how serious crimes he must have committed in his life and if he has any serious records against his name in police files. Also, leaving every business he's been doing so far all of a sudden will not be possible. Even if he is true with his words, it will take him considerable time to leave his business and lead a simple life. All these things will trouble you in life sooner or later. So, better would be to let him go and mind your own business.

Cut all contacts and alliances with him and move forward in life.

I think all these things have their own importance and a proper mixture in proper measurement of love+ money+ status+ respect+ image makes marriage.