hi all..im in love from past 4 yrs...we used to study in the same school..right now im 24 and she 23...both our parents know abt our relationship .... problem started off here:-(:-( her parents want her to get married within a year but i cant do so...and heres my problem
:my sis is yet to be married...my parents want her to get married after 2 yrs just to prepare ourselves to perform the wedding quiet decently...(financial)..
:my elder brother got married just 4months ago which is why we need some time to stabilise the financial side of our family bfr sis marriage.
This were im in a spot at my home...which is a genuinely a problem...
but my gfs parents particularly her dad is asking her to get married within a year and she explained it to him yet he is not convinced and he supports his wish saying as follows
: ur my only daughter bfr i get too old i must get u married and earn enough so i can buy my grandchildren everyrthing tey wish blah blah...
:if u get married early i can do my duties as a father bfr i loose my strength to work..
and her mom supports me but she cant help beyond this ....and i wanted to meet him next week il try explaining him the problems and try to make him understand hope he gives me a chance...since we live in india here its not acceptable for a man to get married bfr his sis gets married...my sis is just 1and a half yr older to me...what is your advice friends?
and his dad keeps saying if we cant get married when we say u forget him forever but she is a brave and practical girl she keeps convincing them...and moreover i cant watch them torture her everyday like this which she tries to hide from me tats coz she doesn want me to feel guilty...waiting for a valuable suggestion guys
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