Hi All,
Am Priya , my life goes very complicated. Hence kindly help me with some suggestions. I was in a love with a guy for 1 year we both loved each other so truly.
Life was going fine. Both of our parents were against our love since we belong to different castes. In his home they were seein alliance for him . He said that he will say to my parents that he love me. But due to some fear I said don't say . By god's grace that girl has been dropped. Later one day he went to native with his parents, at that time his sister saw our photos and conveyed to his dad that he was in love . Suddenly his dad arranged for an alliance in his hometown and made an formal way of engagement stating keepin flower in girls head is an engagement in their caste. He doesn't knew this customs. He thought after coming to his home he can reject her. But situation went differently he was begging his parents like anythin . But they were not ready to accept me as well as stated that half marriage over and can't stop now. Moreover his dad was threatening that if this marriage stopped me, ur mom,bride and bride mom will do suicide. Also he added that now if u and ur lover got married na they will kill you both and also both of your parents. Since it's a village in south India they will not accept in gettin engaged to a girl and later marryin a girl whom you loved. Hence we decided to speak with that bride and explained the whole situation also stated that she will not be happy if she mArry him. But she replied only one thing for all that she will goto her dad I.e will die. She don't worry hw she gonna be after marriage he just want him to marry.Since her mom was in politics we don't know how to deal too. We begged to them for 4 months and he tried suicide but no use was very stubborn and stated they will die. One fine day all of a sudden bride mom n her relations came from there hometown to have a compromise with him. He begged to them that she will not be happy if this marriage happens and will divorce her. His mom was stubborn and said we don't mind whatever happens after marriage everythin will become alright. All of a sudden asked him and his family to get ready. Brought a car and took them stating tomorrow is their marriage. We don't know what to do. Since our parents grown us and made as a successful person to this level. We don't wanna spoil either my parents image by runnin out of my home and also leaving his parents to do sucide. Hence atlast he got married to that girl. But within a 2 hours of marriage he returned to our place. It's been almost 3 months nothing has happened between them don't speak to each other and he don't take her out. He states that only me in his heart no1 can change this and drinks daily. Even his parents and his wife bro no1 ask him anything. He says that he can't forget the memories of me and start a new life with her. I don lyk her , whenever I see her get a thought she spoiled my life. Even I can't forget him and get married to some1. Hence he decided to divorce her and marry me. Is this decision by us is correct? What to do if she did not sign the divorce papers ? How to convince our parents for this marriage ? Both of our home very orthodox and custom oriented.
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