Originally Posted by
Pulkit
Hi jtrm,
You are right now going through a situation which almost every second love couple face and that is, parents intervention/disagreement because of some or the other reason. Here. the reason is ofcourse, the caste, i guess.
My honest advice to you would be not to leave your parents ever in life. Agree to what they say ULTIMATELY. But this does not mean that you stop applying your efforts to convince them.
See, here you said, you and boyfriend tried only once to convince your parents and everything landed badly. Your parents did not agree to either you efforts or his. Try to put yourself in their shoes...Its certainly not easy for a parent to agree to whatever their children says until and unless they are provided with a GOOD REASON. Try to get out the fact that something is going their mind. There might be a reason why they denied your match with your boyfriend.
Now, your work is to sit with them ...talk to them on this very issue and get that particular REASON out. Get to know from them as whats going in their mind. Why have they forbidden your match ? Once you get this reason, which I guess is caste here, you can try to convince them again with a fresh start.
If you feel that this particular reason which they have given you makes no difference to you, tell them.
Also, let them know what are the things you love in your boyfriend. His positive points....!!! Make them realize that you really love your boyfriend. Just convince them in every possible way.
I hope they will understand.
All the Best !!!!