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ARTICLE : What Does “I Love You” Actually Mean?

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    It is not enough to tell someone you love them on a regular basis if there is no passion and fire behind the statement. We often say the words, “I love you” without really feeling the meaning of them. Yeah we know the words mean, ”You matter to me… I care about what happens to you…. I think you’re pretty cool.” But there is so much more to it then that. When we are first falling in love, we think about the ideas of what that means. We analyze the relationship and each other. We really look at what is developing and we evaluate whether or not it is safe to say those three little words. It is a big deal to make the decision to say it to someone else. How will they receive it? Do they feel the same way? Will they say, “I love you, too” or will they mumble something about having a meeting they forgot about? After the relationship is going along successfully, we forget to really think about what it means to still be saying, “I love you” to the other person.



    Here’s an exercise for you that should help you rediscover what it means to say those words to someone. Think about tone and voice inflection. You can change the meaning of a sentence by which word you give extra punch to. “I love you” is different from “I love you” which is also different from “I love you.” Let’s look at each version separately.



    When we say it as “I love you” one is reminded of when someone is depressed and thinks that nobody cares about them. We let the person know they are wrong by letting them know we want to be seen as the exception to that belief system. But take it a step further…. Who are you? What does it mean when YOU are the one saying that you love someone else. What does that entail? Who exactly is loving them?



    When we say it as “I love you” then it means more then just “I like you” or “I want you” or “I admire you.” What does the word love mean to you? Are you using the right word? Maybe you really should be saying “I care about you” or “I love how I feel when I’m around you” or “I think you’re amazing.” Sometimes we just cluster a whole bunch of positive emotions together and put them under the umbrella word – love. So take some time and think about what that word means to you and how it is used.



    When we say it as “I love you,” what comes to mind is someone being accused of wanting someone else and they adamantly reply, “No! I love YOU!” For this portion of the exercise, think about who it is you say those words to. Who are they really? Are they the same person today as they were when you first started saying it? If you met them on the street for the first time today, as they are now, would you still fall in love with them all over again? Do you still see them for who and what they are deep down inside or are you just saying the words to a memory of who they were when you first met them?



    Finally, blend all of these concepts together in your mind. When you tell your partner that you love them, what is it you’re saying in it’s biggest fullest sense?

    Now write it all down. “I love you means….” You may only have one or two sentences or you may have pages and pages of words describing what it means for you to love that person. It is not important how much you have written, but that you have now reconnected yourself with the root of what it is the words “I love you” means to you. When you say it to your partner, you will say it with real passion and fire again because the meaning will be fresh in your mind. You won’t be simply repeating it on autopilot like so many of us do. Perhaps you will add a passionate kiss and even tell them about this exercise and what came to mind as you contemplated what it means to love them.


    All The Best !!!

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    Nice sharing Pulkit, I have seen this article somewhere already.

    Keep sharing.

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    Hi Buddy !

    When we says “I Love You” to anyone it's means to care for that person selflessly, to make sure that your partner is happy always...

    And try not to hurt your partner in any way

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    Priya Jain
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    It means that i accept you as you are.... I will be with you in happiness as well as in difficult times..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mayank Gautam View Post
    Nice sharing Pulkit, I have seen this article somewhere already.

    Keep sharing.
    Hello Mayank Sir,

    It could be possible that you must have seen this article somewhere else too. I just wanted the people present on this forum to know about it, so I shared.

    Thank You for your appreciation !!!

    Take Care !!

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    Quote Originally Posted by HimeshKumar View Post
    Hi Buddy !

    When we says “I Love You” to anyone it's means to care for that person selflessly, to make sure that your partner is happy always...

    And try not to hurt your partner in any way
    Hello HimeshKumar,
    Yes, exactly that is what it actually means. Its good that you know the real meaning of it. Thank you for commenting !!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Priya Jain View Post
    It means that i accept you as you are.... I will be with you in happiness as well as in difficult times..
    Hello M/s Priya,
    Yes, this is a silent promise from both the parties involved in the relationship to each other. Thank You for commenting !!!

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    Dr. Food
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    Hi There!!!

    It really interesting to read To how beautiful these guys feel about love!!!

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