Hi i need suggestions please help me
I am 26 yr old Hindu grl from kerala and im in love with a christain boy. we both are from middle class family and we know each other for the past 5-6 years and we are in a relationship for more than 1 year. We are deeply in love n we want to live our life together. But both of our parents are against our rltnship. we love our parents a lot and are scared to run away and get maried coz we will hurt our parents and not sure whether our parents will harm themself. we tried to convince our self to brak up our rlatnship but we cant . we love each other a lot and cares for each other.hence because of our parents we are not able to decide each other what to do. we tried to convince our parents a lot but they informed that due to intercaste they are not interested and our life will be ruined and ends up in divorce .My parents are searching mariage propasals for me and i have told them that I cant mary a person other than him and i will not run away from here and not to force me for any mariage i will sit at hom . They start blackmailing me that they will kill themselves and me if i didnt agree for mariage and im sure that they will do anythng. they are scared abt the society , relatives and friendz what they will think abt them if i get maried to a christain guy and they will loose respect from others .
Please help me to find a solution as we tried to convince our both parents each other and if we do a court mariage agianst our parents whether our life will be successful as i believe that if parents curses us our life will b ruined. we want to be together n we dnt want to get maried to another person. I know that time heels, we have only one life and it should be with the person we love .
why shud i ruin other guy's life if if my parents force me for mariagewith othr person. parents are very loving and they are scared whether we will run awy and get maried. but we both want the blessig of our family to start our life .
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