Hi,
I am a south indian girl who is madly in love with a north indian guy (jaat). When we started all this relationship, we had no idea that we would fall for each other. Moreover, he had told me specifically that HE CAN NEVER GIVE ME LONG TERM COMMITMENT. Despite everything, we started seeing each other and ended up falling in love. I am 24, All India Service officer, undergoing training. He is 26, an engineer and works for an MNC. I am being very frank here: I love him, and cannot comprehend a lifetime without him. He loves me too much, but is not willing to take a decision that will hurt and wound his parents forever. The only reason for it is his caste: a jaat, and strongly rooted in it. He does not want to embarrass his parents just so he can marry the girl he loves. Moreover his parents are very serious about getting him married soon. They know that i exist in his life - some where as an unassuming friend. They have no clue about our relationship. I am completely broken because I really hoped for him to rethink things since we fell in love (which we decided not to in the beginning). I dont know what to do and the emptiness i feel every time i imagine him going away is too much to bear. I do not want to take any stupid/drastic decisions with my life, but that's all i have been thinking about the past month.
Someone please help me.
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