Hi friends, i am 30yrs Guy and my Gf is 22yrs. My GF is acting very much weired.
We are into relationship since last 8month. My GF friend proposed me and I told her i need time, till then we will spend some time together, know each other and then will decide. I informed my parents about this and she also informed to her parents. We then started meeting eachother, spent time together and finally I agreed her proposal. Intially she would call me often, gave lots of Gifts and tired to keep me happy in all aspects. We use to meet every alternate day. She stays in one end of the city and i stay at the other but still she managed to to met me almost everyday and would stay late evening with me. She invited me at her home for some or the other function and introduded me to all of her family members and she would also talk to my parents on phone on some special ocassions of mine.
Later (4 months) as the days passed she resisted meeting late eveinig and would like to go home early. Then after few days she would meet only twice a week. Rather things she use to do for me I started doing for her, I would go her place to meet her, to spend time with herand would call her often. Situation was totally changed. I can understand that its natural and I too was happy in doing so. I love her very much.
Every thing was going smooth in our rekationship till then. But three month back we started with some kind of discussion and it endedup into argument. Later whenever i discussed about the changed behaviour she would get angry and would talk rudely. This happened most of the time as I was not able to understand and I need some solution with some matured discussion.
Few days back she told me that before meeting me she had an afair with some guy in her locality for almost 3yrs. They had a broke up just before I can in her life. She said she is still talking to him as now her ex-guy cant stay without her and he tried to kill himself. She says she loves me but this guy loves her and she loved him in past. She says she has messed up her life completey and is confused. She says she dont want to leave me and asked my help. I told her i will support her in any of her decsion. Now whenever I call her, she talks to me, says love you and gives lots of kisses.
Please friends let me know what is she upto, does she really loves me. I am ready to help her in anyways unless and until things are clear to me or else we would endup with very devastating situation.
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