I am in relationship with a guy for past 1.5 years. We both love and respect each other a lot. He's very serious about me. I have a family of 4: my mom, dad, younger bro and me. Past 6 months back I told y mom about my guy. Initially she was Ok and was interested in knowing a lot about him and his family. We both are from different states and we do not have any common link between our families. My family is very conservative. They are of the view that my marriage should be done from the people who belong to our native state and some common connection like a trustworthy mediator should be there. They told me its not possible for me to get married to my guy (as they aren't aware of the authenticity of his and his family's whereabouts specifically coz of social stigma). Now they have seen two guys for me. My mom came to me and asked me to tell which one out of those two would I like to choose my future hubby. I told her that I would like to marry the guy of my choice. My father threatened me of worst consequences ( like killing my Boy friend or spoiling his career, my house arrest, loss of my freedom-no studies, no job etc.). I can't risk his life for my happiness and can't marry any other guy. Me and my guy don't want to go against the wishes of our families but things are not working. We can't imagine our lives without each other. What to do...please help. We both want to have an love cum arranged marriage.
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