Thank you for the suggestion my dear friend
1: we have not yet given up we are still trying and trying and giving family chance so that they accept us happily and we live without any fear in our life.
2 : I understand ur word and respect them. but she was not ready to do anything like this
but she was not aware of it. only 1 hr before when she reached home after her office she got the information
and then she was beaten up and she was taken to place and she said if u do this
i will speck all the truth over their then her mother that if u speck a single word then we will kill him and they have
mine nub so she sit quite over their and not talked to anyone
her father in-laws stay at Pune so she dont want to talk on phone to them and she is waiting that if they came back
she will talk to them for the same
3: ok i got your point. I have already put up a complaint against them for the same if any thing happened then her family is responsible
4:They already now about her but they r not ready to take any step further because of caste. They are from lower caste. I am living separately from my family
5: The person who had given the false statement about me is their elder son in law. They trust him blindly
so what ever he told them they take it seriously. When this was not happened a few days back, i had a word with him he said
dont worry i try to convince family but after having a word with me same day he put some false statemnt to family.
6: I am consulting lawyer for my safety also
I respect very truly and don't want to loos them that is the reason that we had not yet took any wrong step.She is trying to convince her family but if they
put some pressure for marriage then we dont have any other way to run away or suicide.I m ready to show them my love and prove it
but their are not able to met me, listen me, talk about me. They have in mind that im using their daughter for time pass, i will leave her after some
year etc etc but i truly want that they should give me 1 chance to show my feeling for their daughter
They are very clear that we can marry u anywhere else but not with the boy of ur wish. he is not good at all. They r trying to put misunderstanding in between us so she leave me
but we too are also very clear that if we marry, we marry each other otherwise no one else.
Now her family don't even care if she cry for hours and hour. They don't even make her stop. They only say this
if u had a relation then why u don't said before, Y u both dont get married if u r in relation and enclosed all this before.
now its been more than 7 days im not able to contact with her and dont now the exactly situation of her and their plan.
Our Views : We both had planed that if our family will not agree then we don't have any other way to go for court marriage.Then for protection. We are in hope that they will accept us
and we don't do anything wrong which make them shame in society but now they are not giving us any other way apart from this.
I need you help in this that can you tell me about the process of marriage, law and what step we need to take before we go this way so that we dont get in any problem.
IS THIS WRONG IN THIS COUNTRY IF WE LOVE OR CHOOSE OUR LIFE PARTNER OF OUR OWN CHOOSE. WHY THE PARENT DON"T SEE WHAT WILL HAPPENED IF THEY FORCE FULLY MARRY US SOME WHERE ELSE WITHOUT OUR WISH.
Thank you all for the suggestions
God help us
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