Hi am Akshay, well settled and has the best job. I am in relationship with a girl who also works with me. We have been in relationship for a year now. recently(10 days ago) our family met and we officially put the marriage proposal. However within a day her parents refused to get her married to me. They never told us the reason but as told by the girl earlier , the parents are totally opposed to the intercaste marriage. ALso they are extended family (Tau, Mama, Dadi, Nana) and her Nana takes marriage decision.
she tried to convince them for few days and even threatend to never get married again and to quit job but still parents are unmoved. Now the parents have become successful in brainwashing her. the girl is not at all talking to me now. She is not replying to my message. She told one of our mutual friends that parents wont ever agree to our marriage and its better that i get married somewhere else. She said that caste is not a major issue in this decision.
i tried to talk with everyone in her family, her mother father, sister but no one is picking up my call. I am not able to think clearly here. She hasnt even told me the exact reason why we cant get married. We both are well qualified and financially independent and love each other very much. She was very happy the day our parents met. Now if not the caste, what other reason could be for such refusal. also what should I do, nobody in girl family is ready to talk to me. Also girl is not talking to me. I m feeling very helpless.
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