Im a girl from Tamil Nadu and my boyfriend is Punjabi and settled in Rajastan. We both met during our Engineering in chennai and fell in love. We are in relation of 5 years now. We both got job in same IT firm in bangalore. My family is too much conservative and strict and very much caste oriented. I am well aware of family that they will never accept but still can't live without him. We have good understanding and care for each other. He said in home recently but they were not in position to accept. A month ago they got a marriage proposal in my home and they called me to come home, i was unaware of the situation and went. They showed me the guy's photo and asked my consent. I got scared and panicked and told them that i like some one else(which was biggest mistake of my life). They got furious house arrested me and made me forcibly resign my job. I was in home for a month may 2014 i said i will prepare upsc but cant marry that guy whom they told me to. Finally, since my family had financial problems and my company was going to file absconding case for not serving notice period, either i had to pay 3 month salary or get back to pay notice period. I some how managed to get out on loads of conditions, to visit home every week, to get transfer to chennai and not to stay in bangalore, to marry the guy whom they say. My relatives were not letting me come out till last min, it was gods grace i escaped. They even took all my certificates and then sent me. I have time till aug to go chennai. The torture is not going to end here. They will not stop until i agree, they went beyond limit to force me. My relatives were poison in spoiling my life. My boyfriends parents even came to state of accepting after hearing this.
Is there nay suggestion or idea anyone can share, that u have faced or resolved. Because even i do a court marriage i need my certi for it and even i do , they will find me and kill me or my BF. My family is so barbarious and heartless. Please suggest, there is no way im sacrificing my life.
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