Please suggest way for my love life - Orthodox family against marriage
Hi everone. M nidhi. M 23yrs old, belongs frm an orthodox fmly. Hve an elder voilnt arouser brother.. In a 7yrs reltnshp. Prblm facng.. My famly hd fixed my marriage. N in my fmly thy dnt considered good to ask for grls decisions in a marriage councellng. Famly can nvr prefr intercaste n love marrge as dy wl spoil their reputatn name fame in society. Thy pple are plang to do my marrge in feb. N small functns in cmg november, i tried to convince them by using my base of education. M ma final yr 3semester student. I tried to win their heart by sayng frst i want to settle down then i want to marry but they ignre my concern. N even said that if i didnt stop my sayng abt my education then they wl stop my education. Thy r just makng me study for nothg. They are bothered about it at all.
My better half is persng mba correspndce. He needs 2ys to settle atlst. He dnt hve a father.. Jst maa.. Who is with us. V have some funds in our banks accnt. When nthg can happn in ds suitatn v pple wre left with jst one optn..i.e regstr marriage. V thght v wll do ds n be leglly strng atlst. N then v wll run away frm our parents atlst for time..jab tak sab thoda cool na ho jae... V dnt want to hit the iron when hot coz dat wll leads to our fall only. When i wll leave i wl leave a letter to my parents tellng them evry truth. N v wll also drop xerox of our regster marrge certfcte so dat dy can file a case agnt my betterhalf famly or him. I jst want to ask is this all right..do ds step wll make sense... I even want to knw excattly wat all n how should i write a lettr..help needed
hw can a lawyer help in ds?
i mean like wat can a lawyer do in ds? Hw can he hlp.. My bttrhalf wl be wrkng in sme bpo as a part time that wll be adngg grades to hs mba experience... Evn i wll be focusng on my masters.. I alrdy take tutions.. I wll continue ds.. Then my 2 famly is also intrstd in bed.. Thy wll mke me do bed...whch cnse 1 yr dat mean aftr 2yr v wl both be settle.. Atlst my degree are all in 1st divisions rank.. Jst 2yr struggle i thnk can mke my lfe atlst happy coz i wud be hvng d 1 whom i loved n who eqully love me back. If i opt for my family choice i wl spoil many lifes d persn wth whom i wd be marries to hs famly nmy fmly even i... All wl be in mess bttr i shud comprmse my famly name n my prestige n atlst be happy for life..