I want my love to be a success - but family and caste issue

hai friends!

i m nandhu and 23 year old i m in love a guy we are same age . we both love each other . we thought to tell our parents after ayear . but my parents are looking a match for me. we both are not willing to drop our love. the problem is that we both are not same cast. we dont have an idea about how to tell them and make them to understand our love. we dont want to miss our beauty full life. we cant giveup our love at the same time we want our parents. we dont have an idea about run and get marry. we want our marriage to be love and arraged marriage. pls help us. we want our love and our parents. pls help us. our family member wont support us. pls help us. we love each other i cant live without him as like me he too cant live without me...... pls hepl us pls friends.

tell to guy meet you family and impressed them :). so your parents feel that you are secure future with him



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Hello Nandhu,
If either one of you(especially him) or both of you are financially independent, it is a plus point. It is better to let them know now that you are into someone else, so they may stop looking for a match. Get your family friends, whom your parents think highly of, or, are close to and let them talk to your parents,since your family members dont support you. Make them understand that both of you are in the same religion and caste does not matter so much, since love,care and respect for each other is much more important. And turn to spiritual and DIVINE ways when practicality is not working much. Browse below and follow to the best you can.


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Wish you both the best,
Dr.Sky
(Allopathic Doctor, Relationship Advisor, Spiritualist)

Hii Nandhu,
First of all let me tell you, until you open up yourself to your parents you will never know what they have to say on it, by reading of your post I have come clear that you haven't yet talked to your parents about your love, as of now, what you may do is you may introduce your boyfriend as your friend at your home at initial stages and later you may show signs of interest infront of your parents once they get familiar with your guy, you may face some initial problems regarding the issue of caste and religion, but the level of your love and the willingness of you to fight for your love till the end will ultimately help you to win your love and your parents, once your parents get familiar with your guy, and then you may proceed to make your parents meet your guys parents and proceed to talk for marriage. But do remember one thing that unless you talk to your parents about your love you may only get one answer that will always be a big "NO", so I request you to talk to your parents as I have said you, by introducing your guy as a friend at your home.
Best of Luck for your future.