I love a guy but he doesn't want to get into relationship ?

I'm a girl from tamil nadu. The guy whom I love is basically from andhra but had stayed in tamilnadu for quite a long time. So there is no language barrier. Thought he too loves me, he refuses to get into a relationship because of differences in tradition nd beliefs. He respects his family and doesn't want to disappoint them. He also tells that even if we get married our children won't get proper support. I don't understand this. Why can't we get married and then face everything together?

Its simple, ask that guy if he really wants to get married to you or not if everything was favourable ie. region and religion? Ask him for straight answer, do not give excuses. It looks that he wants to have pleasure of being loved but don't want to have commitment.

In other words, he may love you but not that much where he wants to marry you. So, its better for you not expect anything from him. Hope you understand.

Good luck.