Kaise Kahu?? diplomacy in tackling situations

Kaise Kahu?

Well just as the name suggests ,’how should I say’ brings into view the very important topic of saying the right thing at the right time, to the right person and in the right manner.

Let me give an example, I was watching a serial ‘choti bahu’ on Zee tv. It’s a story of two sisters, one very arrogant and adamant and the other very subdued and religious. They are from a very religious family. Our hero naturally falls in love with the kind natured and simple younger sister. Then as any plot would go, there is a misunderstanding and the marriage is set to take place between the elder sister and the hero, who is blissfully unaware and thinks he is marring the right girl. On the eve of the marriage the older girl known as Vishaka runs away and the younger and meek sister, Radhika takes her place. But realizing her folly, Vishaka comes back again to find that her mother and grandmother have sent Radhika in her place. She takes the place of the bride, the hero is naturally saddened. After a few days, she decides to go and follow her dream of becoming an actress and leaves her home leaving behind great chaos and confusion. Her father disowns her.
Now the mother who feels very guilty in allowing the elder daughter to take the brides place, wants to set right her mistake.

The background of the story is important for understanding the conversation that takes place between the husband and wife. She tells her husband about her friend who had two daughters and the elder one got married in a good family but died later on. So the friends get their second daughter married to the same man as he is of good character. He husband gets the hint his wife gives so intelligently. She can’t say it outright as the man is a heart patient and naturally she doesn’t want to loose him.

Here the TV serial example given tells us that we to should be able to express our views, however serious they may be, but without hurting any other person. Isn’t that an admirable quality?(no doubt the serial is seriously lacking common sense, but serves my purpose)

We all need to address certain issues in our life. But to express them in the right way is extremely important or else unwittingly other non-important issues place themselves in our path and the main and important one is side-tracked. Glancing at the situation and a proper presentation of ones idea on it is an art one must learn. Some would call it diplomacy and it is required in our lives. We should make an effort to inculcate it in our behavior

But how does one just start being diplomatic?

The science of handwriting analysis gives you a chance to do so by changing your handwriting. By practicing a certain change in the m’s you can easily receive the gift of diplomacy. We will be able to express our views and points and in the same time not get logger heads with anyone.

Inculcate the most needed quality of diplomacy in yourselves Today by the means of Grapho therapy.

Regards,
Farida H B
Handwriting analyst

Wow, That really a nice Info Farida .

But like to ask one thing if a person who has a very good handwriting and still not express what in her/his mind. How can he improve himself ? In which area of writing he need to concentrate?

Like in about you said

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By practicing a certain change in the m’s you can easily receive the gift of diplomacy.

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Hi Nupur,

Handwriting expresses your personality. Just because someone has nice handwriting does not mean that he/she is an expressive person. As far as the person has not got hell traits , meaning traits that do him/her harm, it is not an issue.
I have also seen that about 80-90 % in India do not express their emotions easily.

Regards,
Farida H B

O I got it... . Thanks Farida for your reply..

Most welcome Nupur

wow farida.. again a master piece from you.. an real eye opener to every one..

Thanks Sunidhi