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Hi I am 26 yr typical Indian girl, currently I am doing my Masters and it will be finished and my parents wants me to marry as soon as I finish it. They even asked me if there is someone I want to marry but I don't have any relationship with any boy. I just don't want to marry but I dont' have valid reason. but I think I am still not ready for marriage. What should I tell my parents ? they are forcing me a lot
Convince them, but for that you should have some reasons; Either further studies or job or something else. So try to convey what you have in your mind. Even if really have no strong reasons then tell them that you are not ready for it yet. Rest matters upon your relationship with your parents and other conditions in your family.
thx for your comment dear but I dont have any valid reason and now I am even not sure if go for marriage or not..
I just explained it here http://etalkindia.com/talk/love-frie...marry-not.html
U r 26 JUst go for it....it will be just fine or find someone who can take care of u ...
I hope you've the answer, why u don't want to marry. there is all most 78% percent chances that u 've faith on god, probably u r so spiritual also. if it is, u r just aimlessly wandering to not to convince the truth in front of ur parent.
u didn't told that in which stream u r pursuing master's, think logically. because, after marriage, utmost 89% responsibility come upon a woman. think again, if ur till now not married.
hi sweetie.. I am in the same situation as yours.. and feel like quiting this world.. i would like to have a chat with your.. i am same as yours.. an indian girl who is forced with all these things.. please if you can read my message here.. please contact me at email removed, please use PM i would like if we can talk about this.. as i think no body understands me :(
Both of u girls sweetie and kuchbhi you are currently facing a problem which is typical for many Indian girls of ua age, as ua age is almost perfect for marriage u both are being forced to marry by ua parents, I think you should find a good job and engage uaself in that to stay away from continuous darting from parents, also make them understand that you are not ready for the marriage yet, and u wanna concentrate on ua career first rather than marrying now, I may tell u when I am ready for it, and till then please don't force me to marry anyone..... You have to convey to them quite clearly ua plans for future and that too with ultimate politeness....