Difficulty in convinvincing Mother who is too emotional and against marriage

Hey frds.. Im in a relationship for past 7 years and want to marry the boy i love. But my parents spcly mum is strictly against it and evem searching gud alliances in our community. She says she has a negative image of the boy and cam never change it. Moreover shes afraid what will she say to the society and relatives. Shes too much adamant on her talks and starts cryng if i talk too much. I cannot marry any ither guy and find it difficult to handle her. I have already talked to my dad about the guy and he has given me some positive signs but he never says anything in front of my mom. The guy is from a lower caste dan us but maintains a gud lyfstyle and is in a gud job. What should i do to make her understand?

Thats a twisted situation.

All I can see is that you need to show your mother that you are in pain because of current situation. She loves and definitely she will get soft on this. But don't blame ever her for your pain. Just show if that its destined this way for you. Can even get help from friends and siblings to convey that because of situations where you can't marry your love, you are loosing mental stability. In short, you may call it emotional blackmailing. But also make sure that she don't see your marriage as solution ie. marriage to just anyone.

Now it is upto you that how much imaginative you can get. Meanwhile, ask your elders to convince your mothers that society doesn't matter at all, they won't feed you.. why to worry about them ? Elders generally makes better impact. Hope you get it.

Hello,
It is difficult to get across or even communicate with someone overly emotional, write a nice detailed letter as to how much you love her and how your guy would be an ideal son-in-law for her and a good husband for you. And get your family friends and relatives to convince her. If your dad is for you, then it will make it easier for you.

And pray to God daily(for God is love) and HE can bring you love(miracles happen daily), and help couples and singles seeking love and marriage as much as possible(through out your life) so that positive karma/action will bring positivity or love into your life.


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Wish you the best,
Dr.Sky

hii friend i think in this situation your father can help you.. you have to talk with your father in alone... explain all the things and told all the positive points of your boyfriend.. also if you can make appointment of your boyfriend with your father then it would be bonus point for your relation... after that your father will remove the nagative point from your mother mind...
i hope it would be very helpful for both of you....
all the best