Father will Kill himself if I marry to my love (of other caste)

Hie my name is alka and i am 23 and my bf is 26 we are in relationship for past 3 months now are we are planning to get married I am bramhin and he is not so my family is not ready for the marriage I tried to convince them as much as i can they took my phone and did not let me move out of the house for 1 week so that I don't be in contact to him in any way but I really love him. On the other hand my parents my parents are forcing me to get married to the person they choose for me and if not my father will kill himself. And I don't want to run away and get married.I dunno what to do I really love him pls help me

Dear Alka, welcome to eTI.

This question was asked a while back, can you update what is the status now. The idea of eloping is not really good and will not only hurt your parents but will also ruin their reputation in society.

Please sit back, relax and then take some decision .