Please help me - Ye kisiki zindagi ka sawaal hai.

hi friends please help me,,, Meri ek friend hai, use ek ladke ne pyar me dhoka diya, lekin WO aaj bhi usase paglo ki tarah pyar karti hai, Maine use us ladke se shadi karva dene ka wada kiya lekin WO taiyar nhi kyonki WO apni family ki marzi se hi shadi karna chahti hai...uski family uske liye ladka dekh rahi hai...lekin unko uske pyar ke bare me kuch bhi pata nhi....WO shadi to kar lengi apni family ke pasand kiye hue ladke se lekin ek zinda lash banke reh jayengi.....Mujhe kuch nahi samaz raha hai ki mai use kaise samjhau aur us ladke ke bare me bhi mujhe kuch nhi pata...Mai kya karu?
please help me ye kisike zindagi ka sawal hai....