What to do -Family pressure to marry but guy don't clear !
hey!!!
i m 25yrs old and had been in a long relationship with a guy who dumped me after 4 yrs to be with one of my best friends...i got over him and started dating again...but i m not the same person now...i have a lot of insecurities....well the guy i m dating now is good, says he is serious and plans to get married to me...at this point of time neither m i looking for a fling...i just wanna settle down....the problem is my mother is putting a lot of pressure on me that this guy should talk to her and meet her....my grandmother and masis(aunts) all r desperate for me to get married....and every other day this topic becomes an issue in our family....i have told this guy what my family wants...he says he will talk to my mum soon...but he never does...he would say he will talk in 2-3 days and then after 2-3 days he will just scream at me....the thing is i dont consider him neither my family wrong in what they want...and in the middle i m stuck....no1 asks what i want....i feel like ill have a nervous breakdown one day...sometimes i feel i just dont wanna get married ever....i just hate it....my family should understand me and if this guy says he loves me then he shlould understand too what i m going through.... the result is i get frustrated , fight with him.... i dont know what to do...i told my mum strictly that no marriage talk but she would reinitiate that in 2-3 days....i need help...plz tell me what to do....
Re: What to do -Family pressure to marry but guy don't clear !
howdy erru, there is one way to know for sure....muster up all your wit and make a chance encounter happen....you would know your family members' routine....so just make it happen that you bump into them when you are with this guy....he will have no option then.