Ways to find love and marriage

Ways to find love and marriage. Combine these three aspects.

1) Intellectual / physical / earthly aspect
2) Karmic / spiritual aspect.
3) Celestial / heavenly / Godly aspect



1) Earthly aspect:
Searching for your life partner in matrimonial websites, through match maker, through family and friends, dating events, where places of mutual hobbiles or interests take place, or at work place or places of worship or gatherings etc etc.

Being compatible, communicating, understanding, loving, caring; being concerned, sincere, faithful and good; sharing responsibilities, convincing, influencing(families for your love and marriage) spending quality time with your partner or spouse and all the whole works matter and do a great deal of good.


2) Sankalpa or Vow (make a strong wish or a vow and believe that it has already been granted, which also helps one to be very focused). This helps to create your own creation. But be careful to always wish or want for mutual love with a single unattached individual.

And karma(positive action continuously throughout one's life). Now the action has to be corresponding to the desires & the lack we want to fulfill. Like helping those in love (unmarried or married couples) in order to strengthen their bonds of love and marriage. By helping in one way or the other the couples, especially in the area of their need one can strengthen a couples love life or their marriage bonds. Many give clothes, money or food or invite them for lunch or dinner, or give prasad or offerings from temples,churches, masjid etc or help them in any way possible especially in their requirement or necessity.
Anyone or everyone can do this on a regular basis or as much as they want and for as many couples as they can. The fundamental priniciple or the universal law, is that, 'What goes around,comes around,' and even in the Bible it says, what we sow, we reap. And the Hindu doctrines have shown that positive karma or action along with faith brings about a positive change in our lives correspondingly. If you want more from this Universe, give more to the universe what you exactly want. Some ancient truths prevail, whether one believes or not. And regarding this ancient truth, couple of theories can be postulated for its basis.


3) Celestial aspect: Deep faith and prayers to GOD(that God will help us find love and give one a happy married life or in yourself or in the universe or in love itself, (if you are a non-believer of the creator).



Do try all you can to find love, you may just get lucky, if it doesn't work (one shouldn't wait to adopt the solutions above), do this as well and even after finding love and getting married, to deepen and strengthen your bonds of love and marriage, there are many ways out there (starting with common sense, certain books on relationships, advices for couples, counselling, loving, caring etc,etc), but along with that just do this service or volunteering to couples,
it makes absolute sense and i have seen it work for many. And women should help and support other women as much as possible.


First one has to understand that life is quite complex, even a good person may not necessarily be in a satisfying relationship, since life is a confluence of karma(luck from the result of thoughts,words, actions in the past), negative or opposing forces around us, our beliefs / faith, past life karma(some souls have past lives), fixed false beliefs or negative impressions of the past in the mind and heart due to situations or circumstances in the past, ones own insecurities,
family background and their beliefs or weightage and our true underlying mission on this earth.


All in all, this earth is a stage for a play of life.

However, these solutions should help us to forge ahead and to cross the hurdles:

1) Strong / powerful intention or faith in oneself or belief in God (if one believes) / the Universal force or power of love to change our lives or destiny. Believing that the impossible is always possible. That was the only way many scientists,artists,visionaries,industrialists have created many useful things just as God has.

2) Positive thoughts,words,actions help to create positive cycles / chains / circles which create a positive force / result for the doer.

One way to resolve issues, is to work on different levels ( similar to baking a layered cake and putting the cake together)

==the earth / physical level / intellectual level(understanding,loving,caring, being good, etc.. as described in Part I)

==the karmic / spiritual level ( helping others ).

===Celestial level (prayers to God )


1)Along with powerful belief, one has to provide positive forces for oneself, simply put: positive thoughts,words,actions.

This should be done for singles to help them finding love / assisting in their marriage or couples(married or unmarried). Many ways this can be done, one can help out at the time of their weddings(in whatever way possible,especially in what the couples require), it can be done to help / support / strengthen their love or marriage. Many give money / household items / clothes / food / baby items, or even in the form of good advice for both to make a loving home.

This should be done with the thought of merely helping them and the couple should feel happy and in no way it should create any interference / involvement / unhappiness for the couple.

2) Some women and men even pray and fast or give up a meal a day or give up their favorite food for a day. It all depends on one's power of faith.

If one has negative impressions or fixed false beliefs, one should undergo meditation / daily cleansing, positive visualization or affirmations, kriya yoga(quite powerful), eternity process, regression therapy, as required by the individual after proper consultation or screening so as to dwell on the positive energies of the self.

Now this service or volunteering to help out couples, one can do lifelong. One can start with their friends, family members, neighbors or church groups or mosque or temple, wherever one goes to pray or community halls. It can be done during holidays or religious times or festival days or whenever one sees a requirement or necessity in the couples needs or it can just be done at anytime by anyone even by a non-religious person or an atheist. Even parents can do this on the behalf of their unmarried children.

One need not be rich to give away, one can start with food or sweets or pastries, set of bangles, blouse pieces / sarees if you are an indian or any kind of clothing, or other personal items for women or small household items. And you need not even know any couple or interact with them in person, just go to a templeor your prayer place or community hall and distribute whatever you want to give (just don’t exclude anyone, it may not be a couple who may come your way all the time, but there are bound to be couples. You can keep different items for different groups, some items for couples, some for single women, some for children etc etc),

if asked what you are doing, just say you like to give. Or go to a church or temple or mosque or a wedding hall and volunteer on the behalf of the church or temple and see how you can assist with the weddings, this way you need not even know any one personally. Some are known to contribute some money or even conduct the entire marriage ceremony when a couple is unable to afford or has difficulty with marriage arrangements. Some help out women and couples in their own family, or friends / colleagues, neighbors; since charity does start with the family and it makes sense to see the need of those around you. Some times it can be in the form of good advice( if one asks for it or is in need of it) or it can be your time. But try not to intrude or interfere, take their precious time, or become overly ‘attached’ or suffocate or ‘third wheel’ or make any one of the partner unhappy, since this will actually be working against you rather than for you.

And as far as the result is concerned, each one's life has its own course, some see results quickly, for some it is step at a time, some see changes in their life in general, be it in their health, other relationships or even career wise. No one can say for each person is different with their deficits, each on a different step on the path of love and marriage or karmic wealth or luck if you want to call it, each with a different purpose, mind-set, desires, beliefs,ambitions in life, self-awareness & awareness of the world around; but what is important is that one is committed to doing these actions to help singles and couples and it will produce benefit in due course. Observe the path your life takes and you will notice that there will be a positive change. If you want to see results more quickly, then focus and intensify and multiply your positive actions; instead of helping 100 couples and singles, aim for a 1000. And when one falls back a step or two or encounters a problem in one's love life or married life, attack it intellectually & spiritually & move ahead 5 steps up. Some are known to help 10 or 25 or 50 or 100 or 200 or even 1000 couples at a time, as many as one can.

When the going gets tough, the tough get going. So do not give up, even if it is taking you longer than others.
Eventually one day, you will make it the right way.

All the best,
Dr Sky
(Allopathic Dr, Spiritualist, Relationship advisor)
[email protected]

All these 3 aspects are so important in any relationships