Hello...I m in relationship with my partner since last 8 month n also we decided to get marry.. From my side in my family expect my father all r aware of my relationship n all they talk to my partner..they r also ready to accept my choice..but i m not&nbsp;getting how&nbsp;should&nbsp;i&nbsp;convince&nbsp;my father. these is the 1st problem created.. again her parents r not aware of our relationship..3 month before her parents was got message that she is roaming with a boy. she also told her father that this name guy was with me but we are not in relationship.her father told her not to talk wih him but though we are always together.Now every thing is fine. but i m always getting afraid of that how will she convince her parents.. because they are so polite to her. they love her very much. i m always getting tense about i don't want to loose her in any condition. so please help me to know how should she suggest her parents make them believe to her for having right partner..<img src="http://etalkindia.com/images/smilies/frown.png" border="0" alt="" title="Frown" smilieid="11" class="inlineimg">

Hi RAHUL,



First just relax yourself and stop worrying. You have a very good scenario out there and I don't think so there is any need to get worried about your relationship. The fact that your whole family is aware of your relationship with the girl in question is itself an added advantage. When trying to convince your father for it, all you got to do is, take everybody in the family to talk to him and let him know how important this girl is for you and how much you love her.
You standing all alone convincing your father for this is a less better an idea than taking your whole family along with you as your support and then talking to him over this.

So, don't feel afraid for this. Its just natural and genuine love and not a crime for which you need to feel reluctant to talk to your father.

Coming to the girl's family, there is nothing that you can do or infact you should do. Everything to be done to make this relationship work out from her family will be and should be done by her. Your intervention into her family with your reasons might bring the situation to halt. So, let her fight for her love all alone and when its time for you to enter into the tussle, you will.

Stay cool and stay happy !!!