i m 27 yrs old. mine is a typical Indian problem. in my family all girls got married before they turn 22. i'm the only one allowed due to my studies and I did well. but when the issue of my marriage started, i was getting difficult to find a suitable groom for me. So i decided to seek from other cast. but my father is orthodox n doesn't like it. i liked a boy from the upper cast. We had some opposite opinions, had arguments, sometimes we also had quarrels which took us near the break-up. But still we managed to stick to each other. Now my major concern is my father's health. We are so much attached to each other. He is the perfect role-model of a father. i love him a lot. I had always been the obedient child. but this time, he is against my wish to get married with that boy. but I know that if I keep on waiting for the boy of my father's choice, it'd be very late. but if i go against my father and marry with the boy of my choice,it would affect my father's health. he is suffering from Blood Pressure. I can't understand what to do? I don't want to hurt my father and even want to marry with the boy i chose. What should i do? Even sometimes I feel like to leave the boy and wait. i did this earlier. whenever my marriage was about to get fixed, i felt like running away. I don't know why? this time also if i give a good fight i may be successful in getting my choice. but i'm afraid of father's health. And even the quarrels i had with the boy too loosen my confidence. but still i know, the quarrels we had were common in most of the couples and is not a major issue. but i can't understand why can't i dare to take a step towards the marraige when it is in sight.
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